In the Cathedral
of St. Paul the Apostle, Fond du Lac, we have a statue of St. Margaret of
Antioch. It is a beautiful, award-winning work of art. St Margaret is not well
known these days. It is possible she never actually existed. But, her legend
was very popular in the Middle Ages (legends, actually, since there are
multiple versions with varying details).
I've been
thinking about Margaret in light of the proliferation of stories of women
sexually harassed, assaulted, and abused by powerful men. Hers is a story a
woman's courageous and powerful resistance to the unwanted sexual advances, and eventual
violence, of a powerful man (and the demonic character of his behavior).
Here is a version
of the legend.
Margaret was born near Antioch of Pisidia located in what is now,
Turkey. Her father was a leading priest of a pagan cult. Her mother died in
childbirth and Margaret was raised by a nurse. Her nurse was a Christian and
under her care, Margaret became a Christian. With that, her father disowned
her. Margaret continued to live with her nurse and tended her sheep.
When she was fifteen, Margaret was noticed by Olybrius, the pagan
magistrate of Antioch and the surrounding area. He was infatuated with her
beauty. He made sexual advances toward her which she rejected. Unable to have
his way with her, he had her arrested and charged with being a Christian which
was illegal. She was threatened with death if she did not renounce her faith in
Christ (or submit to Olybrius' sexual demands). She refused to either recant or
submit. He then had her tortured. Still, she stood firm, even through grievous
torment. Finally, he sentenced her to death.
The night before her beheading, Margaret prayed for strength and
courage. An angel was sent to encourage her and gave her a wooden cross to hold
onto. The angel left and, clinging to the cross, she continued to pray. Then,
demon appeared to her in the form of a dragon. The dragon attacked and
attempted to swallow her. Standing firm, Margaret held up the cross as the
dragon demon tries to consume her. The beast choked on the cross, spit her out,
and died. Then, Satan, himself, appeared to Margaret saying he had done all he
could to defeat her, but her faith and courage had defeated him. With that he
disappeared.
The next morning, Margaret of Antioch strode to her martyrdom as a
victor with her head held high, singing and praying.
As I said there
are many versions of the story. This is my retelling. And there are many
similar stories in the Church of women who refused unwelcome sexual advances.
It is almost a genre unto itself (see 11 Saints Who Endured Sexual Abuse). In each of them, a woman is pressured sexually
or attacked by a powerful man or men. In each the woman resists.
There might be
problematic elements to these stories. But, like other stories of female
saints, they do extol female agency in ways that were not common in their wider
cultural context. Margaret would decide for herself whether and with whom she would have
sex. She resisted the sexual harassment of a powerful man. For the sake of
classic Christian virtue. For the sake of her own integrity.
What of
Margaret’s tormentor? His behavior is not excused or explained away. We might interpret the vision of the dragon
as reflecting his beastly behavior. If he, himself, is not inherently a dragon-demon,
he has surrendered himself to a beastly abuse of sex and power. In classic Christianity, we all need to resist the dragon of lust. And faithful Christians have historically, through honest self-examination, guarded against it in thought, word, and action. But, when that dragon is combined with the dragons of other deadly sins like pride, malice, envy, etc., particularly in those with power; it becomes something worse.
Lately, we have been made aware of just how common that is. Some powerful and famous men have been revealed to be very much like the dragon that tried to consume Margaret in their sexual ‘consumption’ of women. Some of them have paid a price in loss of job and reputation. Others have yet to. Stories like that of St. Margaret remind us of classic Christian virtues and remind us whose side we should be on when women are sexually harassed or assaulted by men – however famous or powerful the man is, however inconvenient it might be politically or personally for us. Men, especially, need to examine our own collusion and be prepared to call other men out when when their words and behavior is degrading or harassing or worse. And we need to support women when, like St. Margaret, they speak out and resist.
Lately, we have been made aware of just how common that is. Some powerful and famous men have been revealed to be very much like the dragon that tried to consume Margaret in their sexual ‘consumption’ of women. Some of them have paid a price in loss of job and reputation. Others have yet to. Stories like that of St. Margaret remind us of classic Christian virtues and remind us whose side we should be on when women are sexually harassed or assaulted by men – however famous or powerful the man is, however inconvenient it might be politically or personally for us. Men, especially, need to examine our own collusion and be prepared to call other men out when when their words and behavior is degrading or harassing or worse. And we need to support women when, like St. Margaret, they speak out and resist.
If you would like to read a poetic version of St. Margaret's story, here is one from the 13th century.
And, mutatis mutandis, some of us would consider ourselves to be one of those "queer" works of grace.
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